Positive

Think Positive!

We hear this a lot. Some people find it rather easy while most may say it is impossible. However impossible anything may seem, there is always a way to doing things. As soon as we realize that there is no right or wrong in any decision we make, we are on the right path.

Some people find it difficult to accept the fact that everything happens for a reason. Life throws a lot at us, to challenge us, to make us better. For someone who is easily torn, life seems to be pulling them downward. All negative thoughts come to their mind. They often feel that life is unfair. Perhaps it is unfair because we let it be.

We may be born to an average family but that should never stop us from striving towards our goal. We have to know what we want, where we want, and the universe will work out the how. When a challenge comes our way, it is the universe working for us. It is the path to the right place, the place that we yearn for.

There are people who seem to be on top all the time while most are suffering down below, not understanding why their life is as such. Perhaps we are not thinking hard enough of what we want. Perhaps we are fickle on our dreams. Perhaps we locked ourselves in.

The universe is infinite. We are just a minute speck of dust in the vast space but very often we choose to magnify our problems and let it stick to us in remorse for the longest time without realizing it. Remorse is a very strong feeling that is extremelly hard to let go unless we have clarity.

We should bring ourselves back to those days where our minds run wild by just reading a fairy tale. We imagine we are that prince or princess that has the happily ever after ending. Fairy tales are created with a message. As children, we may not understand the message but as adults, we should have the ability to look beyond the story. Learn the moral behind each story.

Love conquers all…

Love is the strongest feeling of all. Love can overcome pain, fear, and even regret. With love, life is beautiful. With love, we feel the best of every moment. With love, we are afloat on cloud nine.

If we remember the day when we first fell in love, we will remember the first thoughts in our mind. This is the Mister or Miss Right. We are going to have a happy ending like in the fairy tales. Keep that thought. Put a “star” to that thought like you would in your favourite WhatsApp message. “Pin” it up like you would in your Telegram or Pinterest or on the mirror in your bathroom. Remind yourself every minute of the day.

When we feel love for our goal, we will ultimately reach the destination. Through thick and thin, no matter what comes our way, they will only build us stronger. As long as we reach our goal, it does not really matter what challenges we face. Take up responsibility to whatever decisions we make and the universe will adjust itself towards creating our dreams in the best way possible.

Why do we have to go through all the torments?

This goes back to “everything happens for a reason”. We may not see the reason now but there sure is a reason behind all events in life. When we have passed a certain stage and look back, we will understand. Something that does not make sense now will make sense later. It is just a matter of time, how we emerge stronger each moment we own up to a challenge. It gives us experience. It builds us stronger.

Just as life seems to be the darkest, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. We have to be persistent, to walk forward, no matter what other topsy turvy situation we may encounter on the way. Life is fair. The universe always works for us. Whatever we want, the universe will give.

Today is a good day to start looking at the positive side of everything. Think positive, stay positive, live positive!

 

The way positive reinforcement is carried out is more important than the amount.

Burrhus Frederic Skinner (B.F. Skinner), American psychologist, 1904-1990