Relax

What does relax mean? 

There could be many different meanings. For some, it means doing nothing. For some, it means doing something. 

Perhaps doing something seemingly relaxing can really have the effect as such but what if it does not? What can we do then? 

Is going for a spa relaxing? 

If it is purely spa and not signing up for a spa package that could mean relaxing. But if it involves signing up a package and having to go to the same spa doing the same treatment regardless of rain or shine, that could induce stress in some. 

Is watching a movie relaxing? 

If it is a movie that could help the mind wander off into fantasy, that could mean relaxing. But if it is a movie with negative inputs, it is the total opposite of relaxing and unfortunately, most movies promote exactly that. Why? It is because the public love watching such movies with zombies, fights, twists, and etc. These movies are full of excitement and we would never fall asleep in the cinema. Even children movies and cartoons will have some if not all the elements, whether we realize it or not. These elements keep viewers hooked to the movie and remember for a long time. Then, there are merchandise for them too. 

What does this mean? 

If we do realize, everything in our lives seem to have something to do with money. Signing up the spa package needs and means money. Getting hooked in a movie and buying merchandize needs and means money. Perhaps it is money that is the evil or the angel. 

If we are able to live peacefully with money, then we will be able to relax at all times. This requires effort. This requires understanding too. This sounds complicated but it is worth spending time thinking about. Most of us do not realize that we are at war with money. Being free from the boundaries that we ourselves have created around money is the true freedom.     

    

Sleepless

A sleepless night. When it is time to sleep but one could not sleep. What makes that? 

Perhaps there is too much going on in the head. 

Perhaps there is too much interference going on in the external world. 

Perhaps it is a combination of both. 

Sometimes life can be cruel. Most importantly is how we look at life and how we choose to live life. The way we perceive life is the way life will be. This is the law of attraction. 

     

    

Balance

The blur is sometimes the only thing that is in the memory. Whatever we pay attention to right before we sleep is the thing that usually stays in our mind and make our dream. This is the reason why successful people only keep the mind busy with the things that are important to make success. This is what makes the difference between normal people and successful people. 

But how to determine the right amount of time to spend on thinking about something before going overboard to become obsessed with it? Obsession can be the total opposite and can bring negative impact on the person. Overthinking can cause breakdown in the mind and relationships as well. It is of utmost importance that the person knows when to continuously spend time on one thing and when to actually stop thinking about it. 

Keeping balance between exercising the mind to its limits and taking sufficient rest to rejuvenate. 

This takes practice. 

This keeps people sane at all times.      

    

What Is

What is there to see? 

What is there to write? 

Life is amazing. Sometimes it really does not matter what is, it only matter what there is. 

Perhaps there is a mass of things to remember but there might not be anything important enough to remember for life. What seems to be important now might not be so the next minute. Life is ever changing. It is our duty to stay up to date with life. 

Sometimes we do not know what is real. Perhaps it is not important to identify that. Perhaps it is only important for us to know what there is.      

    

Disturb

Sometimes things happen. Whatever that happens seem to disturb the tranquility of life. Perhaps that is the first thought in our mind but is that really so? 

Everything happens for a reason. 

If life is smooth sailing out entire lifetime, will it be the life we are meant to live? Of course we would love to have everything going according to how we want it to be. 

Think again. 

Where is the fun in living? 

Will we have the motivation to learn new skills? 

Are we going to be satisfied with what we already have? 

Life is an ever changing game. There are times where life is a flow and there will be times where life is a rapid. Whatever challenge we face. Whatever potholes we encounter. The cure is always available for us to seek. We just have to learn to stay calm in search of what we seek. 

Patience is key.